Step 1
Your Appearance Is Number One
The first impression is the most important! If you're going out on the town, make sure you dress for the occasion! Don’t wear worn jeans with old running shoes and an immature t-shirt! This will not to impress any woman! Dress to impress, but also dress for the occasion.
Step 2
Be Confident
You can’t approach a woman and expect success when you envision failure. Be confident in yourself! Before you head out, write down ten positive qualities about yourself and ten reasons why a woman would want to be with you. Repeat it to yourself every day to help boost your confidence level. Do yourself a favour: Eliminate the negatives qualities!
Step 3
Remove Your Expectations
The main reason men get nervous when approaching woman is because they have high expectations! Remember this important advice: REMOVE THEM! When approaching a woman, don’t focus on how she may react, whether you’ll get her number, what her friends may say or how she views you. The best way to remove your shyness is to keep telling yourself that she is just one girl, lady or woman (whichever suits her age). She is just one out of the millions out there, so WHO CARES if she says no because there’s always another one that will be interested in meeting a hot stud like you!
Step 4
Smile
Smiling releases endorphins which will relax you in a stressful state; Such as approaching a woman. Smiling will automatically draw people towards you! When you smile, you feel more confident, more attractive and more relaxed.
Step 5
Go for it!
Don’t wait, don’t think, don’t contemplate, don’t resist, don’t worry, don’t wonder, just go for it by approaching her with a confident and welcoming smile. What’s the worst thing that can happen? If she says no, remember WHO CARES! You’re still that handsome, confident stud! Brush it off and move on!
* There are exercises and specific techniques that can help prepare for a conversation and remove your shyness from a situation; Such as approaching a women.
* Remember that the best way to overcome shyness is to focus on the main goal rather than on how shy or nervous you are.
4 comments:
Hello,
I've heard a little about you guys...mostly from my friends that stumble accross your website or has received one of your services. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I believe you provide image consulting as well. Anyways my question is: I am a female and I myself find it difficult to approach men. I've been brought up with the mentality that men are suppose to approach women but I don't think that should be the case all the time. I know that you specifically provide advise to men but I was wondering if you can provide me with some as well...for free if that's possible :). I would like to know this: How can I tell if a man is interested in me and once I do, what is the best way to approach him?
Hello,
Well firstly, I would like to thank you for visiting our blogsite! Now regarding your question: The best way to tell if a man is interested in you is through is eyes and body language. 60% of communication between men and women is through the body language; however the eyes and tone of voice also play a very vital part in any conversation! You can generally tell if a man is interested in you if he makes eye contact with you for more than 3 seconds. Please feel free to contact our coordinator at info@aapersonalconsulting.com to find out how to obtain more advice and information on the art of attracting and approach any man!
Hi there... I came across your website, and was thinking that you might would be able to help me. I am a white man, and I would really like to date black girls, but I dont know how to approach them, alot of the times I feel intimidated by them . Can you help me in this matter??
Hi James,
Thank you for visiting us! First of all, there is no need to be intimidated by a female due to her race and/or skin color. Race and skin color should not change your perception on how to approach a woman. Nevertheless the first thing you must do before attempting to approach another race is try to figure out what makes them more intimidating then what you're accustomed to. Once you figure that out, then you need to find a solution to overcome this particular fear. Whatever it is that intimidates you about black women can be diminished through steps and tips that we can provide you with! In the meantime, my advice to you is not to focus on the race or skin color of the women that you are approaching but on the conversation. This may help you remove one of the intimidating factors, which will allow you to see her for who she is and not for her skin color. I hope this helps; however please feel free to contact our coordinator at info@aapersonalconsulting.com to speak with a consultant that can help you further along the way!
I wish you all the best!
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